Saying Goodbye to Pets and Grief
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet can be the hardest part of loving a pet. They are often considered part of our family and losing one brings heaviness of grief that one experiences when losing a family member.
One of the difficult parts of euthanizing an animal is deciding when it’s time. When an animal can no longer live without pain and suffering, most Vets will recommend euthanasia. There are “at home” services where a Vet will come into your home so that your pet can be kept more comfortable. I would suggest researching your options so you will know what is the best option when you have to make your decision. Remembering that this is the last loving gift that you can give to your pet will make that decision easier. It will also put you back into a place of power vs a place of a victim. That mindshift can go a long way in helping you go through a difficult decision.
Some people want to be with their pet in the end, while others cannot bear to be there in the moment. Energy Sessions done before can help a person deal with the guilt, stress and fear with the upcoming appointment. I truly believe that every animal would choose to have someone that they love with them in their last moments. Vet offices are trained to handle this sensitive situations with grace and compassion. Ask about the details before the day so you can be prepared emotionally.
Grieving is a normal part of the process of a death or loss. There is no set time that is “right” for grieving. There are times when a person will spiral too deeply into a pit of sorrow and despair. Often these people will vow to never own a pet again due to the fear of grief or loss. An energy session can help track down healthy and unhealthy grief patterns. Trapped emotions and fears can often prevent people from moving forward in their life and can initiate unwanted disease patterns. Energy Sessions will not completely remove the pain, but they can help put the pain in perspective and limit its effects on the body.
In the days following the loss of a pet, it is important to focus on the good memories with your friend. Look at old pictures and videos, and allow your heart to feel those emotions. Try not to dwell on the sick days or the last minutes with them. Having gratitude for the time spent together can be very healing. Reach out to family and friends, this is not a time to be alone. Some people enjoy making a memorial collage, plaque or something to remember their pet by. Saving their collar or favorite dish is a great way to still feel connected through this process. If you don’t have another immediate pet, consider donating the food and supplies to another rescue program. Knowing that your pet’s things can help another animal in need can be satisfying.
Only you will know when it is time to get another pet. There are so many animals in need so I encourage you to adopt again. Energy sessions can help remove blocks that may keep you from moving forward with another pet.
Will I see my pet again? If you believe the Bible and are a Christ follower, you will see that there is mention of animals in heaven and in the book of Revelation. God doesn’t create and then discard so I believe that since He created our pets, His resurrection power also applies to them. I do believe that we will be united with them again. He promised He would wipe away every tear and I cannot imagine that possible without being surrounded by our furry friends. I choose to believe that God will make all things right in heaven—however He decides to do it.
